
A Message to Rowan
A letter to my son before he enters this world

Smiling, seeing you sweat. You’re right ahead, but I got you. Bobbing and weaving, we dance. By your smile, we both won. The perfect body and beat, around the corner. On the river, we all felt it. Shook a tree down. I was with the Heavy. You were with the Babes. Amen.

A letter to my son before he enters this world
Son born.


Let me look again. Take the glasses off. No wait! He’s leaning back into your arms. Maybe one day you’ll get another chance. Another moment.

I'm trying to re-wire all my socials through my blog. Back in 2019, I 'quit social media' and other than posting pictures of my family, I've primarily followed that directive.

Joined the Y Combinator-backed SaaS startup. Grew to VP of Engineering & Operations. Part of the team behind Ruth — an autonomous AI negotiation agent trained on $15B+ in spend data.

My mind doesn't pretend to deserve this. Saved by grace? I'm lucky.